Have you ever gave someone your all but all that your getting is inconsistency and a wondering mind? I know that it may seem cliche to ask but have you ever stopped to ask yourself why are you giving your all to an inconsistent person? Although the inconsistency is a problem, it's not solely that person's problem. I say that because if you are allowing the inconsistency and you are still hanging on to something that isn't there then it makes it partially your fault too! A person will only do what you allow them to do to you! At some point regardless of talking stage or actually in a relationship you have to speak up voice your feelings and ask if it can be fixed. If that person is not trying to fix it and you know it then you are showing them it's OK to treat you the way that they are! There is nothing that is going to change a person other than if it's something they really want to do. Believe it or not sometimes you have to love or like a person from a distance. You can't always stay in situations because of how strongly you feel or how you believe things will change. Rule of thumb for me is people are consistent with what they really want and what they don't want to live without. So when you are thinking and your mind is wondering how does he feel about me or how does she feel about me just know if the person hasn't or won't tell you then just watch their actions towards you. You shouldn't have to think about the consistency of a person because they will be so consistent it won't give you the opportunity to do so! If a person can't be consistent with you and have your mind wondering then love yourself enough to say this isn't fair to me and begin to evaluate your next move regardless of what it is just don't give your all to someone who is inconsistent and have your mind wondering you don't deserve that!